Caregiver Safety, Scam Prevention and Planning
Reviewed October 15, 2026 · Happy to Help Caregiving
Jump to resources by areaChoose the route that fits the situation. Immediate danger needs emergency help. Concerns about abuse or neglect belong with the appropriate protective-services agency. A suspected scam needs a different response from a home-safety review or a conversation about future care wishes.
For possible financial fraud, use an independently verified contact for the bank or account provider and follow the FTC's recovery guidance. Keep relevant messages and transaction details for the responsible organization. Avoid using a number supplied by the person who requested money or account access.
For everyday planning, work through one task at a time: walking through the home, deciding who can speak with providers, organizing a care calendar, or discussing care wishes. Legal forms and financial authority depend on the situation and state. Use the official guides to prepare questions, and seek qualified legal or clinical advice where needed.
Build your next step
Step 1
Address immediate safety first
For a medical emergency or immediate danger, contact emergency services. For other urgent concerns, use the official crisis or protective-services resources below. A Happy to Help inquiry is not an emergency response.
Step 2
Use a trusted contact route
Open the responsible organization's official site yourself. For scams, record what happened and ask the financial provider about protective steps without sharing passwords or verification codes with an unexpected caller.
Step 3
Build a usable care record
Keep agreed routines, important contacts and follow-up tasks in a place the appropriate helpers can access. Share sensitive health, financial and legal details only through the private channels each organization provides.
Questions to bring
- Which organization handles this kind of concern?
- What information should we preserve or report privately?
- Who has permission to make the decision or speak for the person?
- What follow-up or professional advice is needed?
Find the right organization
Choose a national starting point or a local resource below. County boundaries and program rules matter. Ask each provider about its current requirements, costs and access before making arrangements.
National starting points
Care planning
Lotsa Helping Hands care calendar
Create a shared calendar so friends and relatives can sign up for meals, rides and other practical help.
Care planning
VA Making Decisions: Current Care Planning
Use VA’s care-planning tools to talk about what matters to the person receiving care and prepare for discussions with their care team.
Crisis support
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Visit the national crisis-support provider for its current ways to connect when someone needs emotional support.
Crisis support
Veterans Crisis Line
Visit the Veterans Crisis Line for its current support options for Veterans and the people concerned about them.
Home safety
Alzheimer's and dementia home safety checklist
Use the Alzheimer’s Association’s home-safety checklist to review hazards and discuss changes that support a person living with dementia.
Home safety
Falls Free CheckUp
Complete NCOA’s falls questionnaire and share the results with a health-care professional when discussing fall concerns.
Legal and advance planning
Conversation guides for care wishes
Use The Conversation Project’s guides to start a discussion about care wishes and choosing a health-care decision-maker.
Legal and advance planning
Find local civil legal aid
Search Legal Services Corporation’s directory for an organization that can assess a civil legal-aid request.
Legal and advance planning
Managing Someone Else's Money guides
Read the CFPB guide for your role before managing another person’s money as a financial decision-maker.
Legal and advance planning
State advance-directive forms and instructions
Find advance-directive forms for the person’s state and read the accompanying signing instructions carefully.
Legal and advance planning
VA Advance Directives and Health Care Agent Planning
Use VA’s advance-directive guidance to discuss treatment preferences and name a health-care decision-maker.
Scam prevention and reporting
Medicare — fraud and abuse reporting
Use Medicare’s guidance to check suspicious charges, protect a Medicare number and find official fraud-reporting routes.
Idaho
Abuse and neglect reporting
Idaho Adult Protective Services reporting
Find Idaho's instructions for reporting suspected adult abuse, neglect or exploitation, including the route for members of the public.
Utah
Abuse and neglect reporting
Utah Adult Protective Services reporting
Use Utah Adult Protective Services' instructions to report suspected abuse, neglect or exploitation.
West Virginia
Abuse and neglect reporting
West Virginia Centralized Intake for abuse and neglect
Find West Virginia's official intake instructions for reporting suspected abuse or neglect.
Pennsylvania
Abuse and neglect reporting
Pennsylvania elder abuse and adult protective services reporting
Find Pennsylvania's instructions for reporting suspected abuse of an older adult.
Ohio
Abuse and neglect reporting
Ohio Adult Protective Services reporting
Use Ohio Adult Protective Services' reporting instructions for suspected adult abuse, neglect or exploitation.